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we *all* stuff up…

August 28, 2018 by mish No Comments

we live in a world where perfection is valued – getting things right, doing things well… and that’s admirable and good… but give it time, and sooner or later, you *will* stuff up.

no one’s perfect.  and we know that, but yet, what happens when things don’t turn out the way it should?

how do we respond to people when they stuff up?  are we too quick to jump to conclusions about every area of their life when they make one mistake?  is there grace in our interaction with others?  what does it truly mean to forgive?

i think we are taught a lot on how to be excellent at whatever we do, but not enough about how to deal gracefully with bumps along the road.

recently, after a lot of research, i finally decided to invest in something relatively expensive from a company i had never bought from… and when i received the product, i was disappointed to find there was a fault in the product.

my first reaction was to tell myself i should have done more research – and quickly searched on the internet to read reviews.  i must have missed something, how could i be that silly?  i searched through their facebook page (and their competitors), almost wanting to find justification for why i picked them over their competitor.

i then wrote a rather disappointed email with a photograph showing the fault to the company…. at 9:24pm last night.   i had corresponded before with this company in my research, and it took them a while to respond previously, so the thought did cross my mind to leave a facebook review, thinking it would probably invoke a quicker response.

however, what followed next shocked me.  at 9:28pm, no longer than 4 minutes after i had crafted my email, a response came back.  apologising, thanking me for giving them for “an opportunity to amend”, and with an offer to make up for the stuff up.

i’m very glad i refrained from leaving that public facebook review, and gave them time to respond privately.

i learnt a lot from that experience…

+ don’t run away from your problems.  being a natural conflict avoider, that’s what i would do!  however, i’ve found that if you deal with it directly and quickly, people will understand.  less than 18h ago, i thought the worst of that company, but their response in dealing with my situation has made me a convert.

+  be kind to myself!  my first reaction was to “beat” myself over a silly choice of picking that company, versus the other competitors.   i love this quote by jack kornfield “if your compassion does not include yourself, it is incomplete.”

+ how am i being compassionate and showing grace to others?

 

 

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love. love doesn't mean doing extraordinary or he love.

love doesn't mean doing extraordinary or heroic things. it means knowing how to do ordinary things with tenderness. 
to love someone is to show to them their beauty, their worth and their importance. ~ jean vanier
the way back ~~~~~~~~ i resisted it’s been a lon the way back
~~~~~~~~
i resisted
it’s been a long time since i’d been there
what’s he going to say
what am i going to say
it’s probably going to be awkward

but when i entered
his arms were wide open
right where the door was
almost like he knew i would come back
like he was waiting all along 

i didn’t get to say a word
i just ran to him
and hugged him
tears streaming down my cheeks
i stood there for ages

comfort 
understanding
unconditional love
i knew in an instant he understood
he sees me 

i didn’t have to explain
i didn’t have the words
he just knew
knew more than 
i could even comprehend 

but why was i surprised?
he created me after all
he knows every single hair on my head
he knows my every step
my every thought 

before every thought is formed
any step is taken
he was there
waiting graciously
patiently for me

to come home
to make my way back
into his living arms
all along
he was waiting 

he was there
turns out
the way back 
was the only way
to move forward
serenity. this has been my view over the last two serenity. 
this has been my view over the last two days.  was only planning on stopping one night, but waking up to this was so therapeutic (even though it wasn’t sunny) that i ended up staying here again tonight. 
i always thought i was a beach gal, but i got to say, having a lake side view has been very calming! it’s changed my perception of lake views. 
i’ll definitely be back here again... 

i’m curious - what’s one thing that has surprised u in 2021? 

#dronephotography #bermagui #ingeniaholidays #vanlife
i wonder - could our inability to rest be linked t i wonder - could our inability to rest be linked to our identity? 

i wrote a few thoughts on rest recently and here are some things i’ve been pondering over...

bill johnson said, “busyness is artificial significance.  busyness can make us feel important, but neither our identity or our sense of significance should come from our schedules”
 
don’t be mistaken - it is courageous to give Him space to speak into your life.  it’s brave, to make a deliberate decision not to crowd your life, to deliberately make space. to listen.  to seek Him.  to want to know your maker and creator more intimately. 
 
i don’t know about you, but i think sometimes in my life when i feel overwhelmed, it’s cos’ i have crowded out my life and don’t make space to seek Him and just listen to Him.  or I know what I’m doing isn’t pleasing Him, and I make myself so busy so that I am numb… to everything.. 

here’s a drone shot from today as i spent the day relaxing, chilling and taking it slow on this rainy day! 

i’m curious - especially if u have read to the end of this long post... what do u enjoy doing when u rest?

#dronephotography #bermagui #vanlife #australia #visitnsw
adventure. it’s in my blood... and every so ofte adventure. it’s in my blood... and every so often, i feel the need to explore this great world, to stir my visual senses... travel to different places, experience new things. 
i find that when i get out of my normal environment, it helps me see things differently, think differently, expand my creativity and come up with new ideas. 
i’m grateful for being able to take time out to slow down. breathe. 
selah
new. i sense a change of seasons. a freshness. a new.
i sense a change of seasons. 
a freshness. 
and i’m posting now to remind me of this moment. this feeling. 
now is the time.  i don’t know if i can fully articulate it in words, by every cell in my body senses the change.
finally.
the time is now.
the waiting has passed and i’m declaring a season of fruitfulness, abundance and fullness. 
in the last couple of months but increasing in the last week, i’ve discovered new things about myself, new gifts 🎹, new miracles, new friendships, new communities to embrace, new business, new ideas... at such a phenomenal pace yet with such calm, ease, and flow.  maybe this is the easy yoke i have been pondering over. 
all thanks and to my maker, who creates, provides and sustains everything. 
soli deo gloria

for those of you waiting, i want to say... it was worth the wait. every single second.  cos it tastes all the sweeter knowing the journey it took to get here.
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